warning: ranty post

VERY BITCHY RIGHT NOW SO BEAR WITH ME. AND IF YOURE UNHAPPY, YOU CAN ALWAYS CHOOSE NOT TO READ. NOBODY ASKED YOU TO.

so anyway this particular problem has been present in the team for quite some time already. EVERYONE knows it but NOBODY does anything about it or rather they act blur, live longer. i try to protect the usual victims but end up being one myself. woah, sounds serious you think. what am i talking about? it's the coxing issue.

first point, so we know EVERYONE kinda joins db to ROW. NOONE WANTS to COX, duh right. but in a team, shouldnt we at least TAKE TURNS to cox? for first boat i cant say much cause they're gg for seag and they have a designated person to cox kinda thing and since weejin is always on their boat, he does swap ppl around but the fixed coxswains are xw and bobby i think (not too sure cause im not on that boat).. for my boat, (ok i admit im not a vvvv good rower so usually ill volunteer to cox cause idwna drag the boat down, the rest are gna kill me for saying this :S) there is no designated person so other people ALWAYS EXPECT landy to cox. JUST BECAUSE SHE WAS DESIGNATED COXSWAIN FOR DBS, MACAU RACE AND WHATNOTS DOES NOT MEAN SHE HAS TO KEEP COXING. plus due to her work, she has to miss trngs so her water time is already v little. expecting her to cox while those w more regular attendance row is just preposterous. tai guo fen le. already say we're a team so we shld take turns right. so those people closer to her (HAHA SHAMELESS) like jos and i will always offer to cox after her so at least she can row. DISLIKE it when people try to pretend that they dk that it's their turn to cox. I MEAN LIKE WAHLAO how many people nia, how many others cox already of course next is you lah, then who else, us again? we rotate among ourselves is it, is it?!?!?!?!!?!!!!? NOBODY wants to cox. NOBODY wants to sit in front and be drummer. EVERYONE else pushes the duty to one another, even last night, even this morning. AND NOOOOOOOOOO, im not saying imma saint for volunteering to sit out or cox or whatever but i just feel that EVERYONE shld do their part, noone shld be at a disadvantage cause ''we're only as strong as the weakest link''. just because someone is small sized doesnt mean she ALWAYS has to sit out or be drummer. just row w a heavier drummer and you'll get stronger. she already small size, sit out somemore how to improve? what im saying is we shld all be more generous with giving (up our seats) and not just taking (it for granted that SOME OTHER people will always be there to do the dirty work).